tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post774177204705411555..comments2024-01-23T11:10:34.583-05:00Comments on ZCHUS AVOS YOGEN ALEINU: Segulas For ShidduchimA Talmidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07236360333220393398noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-63612635558823602322016-05-30T23:48:08.592-04:002016-05-30T23:48:08.592-04:00I feel bad for the guy that is saying that you are...I feel bad for the guy that is saying that you are not allowed to ask s tzadik to daven for you he didn't read the many portions in Torah where Moshe is asked to daven to hashem neither did he read the Zohar that says that a tzadik that passes away is more found in any world than when he was alive hopefully he will be the one doing tshuva as soon as possible Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-68904613035806505452010-02-22T13:45:48.442-05:002010-02-22T13:45:48.442-05:00DS
I saw your other comments which I chose not to...DS<br /><br />I saw your other comments which I chose not to publish. I will judge favorably and assume ignorance rather than brazeness. You seem to assume that you know better than the Ashkanazik Gedolim that included those tefilos that you want to get rid of. You don't just throw out things because you asume they resemble other religions. These practices were around before them. <br /><br />Also many of the things you mention are usually said by those that don't want the authority of any Rav over them so they say that they can interpret Torah they waythey see fit. All the Gedloei Hadar would disagree with you on most of your points. as far as Breslov, there is no one else that teaches there is no one to rely on but Hashem more than them. However there is a Torah, oral and written that guides us and teaches us. some might say that going to work is not relying on Hashem. That is no worse than getting a brocha from or asking a tzadik to daven for oneself which the gemara says one should do. And the Rambam says that one should attach himsel to Talmidei chachomim. all the bestA Talmidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07236360333220393398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-8141287794234368212010-02-22T13:35:57.804-05:002010-02-22T13:35:57.804-05:00DS-
I cannot speak for Chabad. No one is allowed ...DS-<br /><br />I cannot speak for Chabad. No one is allowed to daven TO a tzadik. However, there is a machlokes among the poskim whether one can ask a deceased tzadik to pray for him. many say it is no different than asking a live tzadik to pray for you which the gemara sa in Baba Bastra 116a that one SHOULD go to a Chochom to pray on his behalf if one is sick. The Ein Yaakov and some meforshim say the same goes for any problem. <br /><br />The Mishna Brura and many others say that one should daven to hashem in the merit of the tzadik. With al due respect to you, most of Klal Yisroel including Sfardim, Chasidim and Litvaks do go tro daven at the graves of tzadikim, some more than others. In Breslover seforim it says that one soiuld remember that they do not need anyone between them and Hashem but they are alowed to ask a tzadik to daven for them also as the gemara I mentioned describes. <br /><br />Hashem loves the tefilos of tzadikim. The gemara says that's why the Matriarchs were barren, so they would pray. By not asking a tzadik (at least a live one as the gemara says) you are depriving hashem of the pleasure so too speak that he gets from a tzadiks tefila and it could very well be the only reason the person has a problem is so the tzadik will daven. BTW, the gemara in Sotah 14a brought by the Bach and ein Yaakov says that the reason Moshe Rabbeinu's grave is hidden is that the Jews will go there and say "Moshe, daven for us" and this will take us out of golus ahead of time. So this is one proof that one may ask a tzadik to daven for them but the ONLY one that one can daven to is Hashem.A Talmidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07236360333220393398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-89604099100316408712010-02-22T12:22:55.169-05:002010-02-22T12:22:55.169-05:00• There should be NO MEDIATOR between a person’s t...• There should be NO MEDIATOR between a person’s tefillot and Hashem. <br /><br />Hashem likes to hear the prayers, tefillot, from our OWN mouths. Even if all we know is how to recite the first 3 letters of the Aleph Bet: Aleph, Bet, Gimmel... Our very own tefillot TO HASHEM, are much more precious than anything else. <br /><br />By going to the Bet HaChaim (cemetery - incorrectly referred to as “the Ohel” by Lubavitch), and lighting a candle, praying, making a request, and then going home – such a person is “leaving it all to the tzaddik” who is not physically alive. You can’t leave it all “to him!”. This is completely Assur and forbidden. <br /><br />We too, can be tzaddikim – and be like the tzaddik. The tzaddik has already made all his tefillot to Hashem in his lifetime. And these are very precious to Hashem. The tzaddik has now passed on.<br /><br />Hashem is now waiting for US – to make our OWN tefillot to Him. <br />We pray to Hashem – at all times. <br /><br />If a person is insisting on praying to one of the creations of Hashem, instead of directly to the King Himself, Hashem will say to us, “You are meant to pray to ME!”<br /><br />Remember that Hashem, our G-d, is a very "JEALOUS G-D" who demands "EXCLUSIVE WORSHIP." (2nd Commandment of the Asseret Hadibrot.)<br /><br />What is your logic in going there? <br /><br />The Ashkenazi tradition has encouraged people to do this, and it is very wrong. <br /><br />Teshuvah to Hashem must be done quickly.Deborah Shayanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-22709244061826575742008-07-11T11:09:00.000-04:002008-07-11T11:09:00.000-04:00another sgullah is to say shir hashirim for forty ...another sgullah is to say shir hashirim for forty days straight, or go to the kotel for forty days straight, or say perek shira for forty days straight. i'm currently finishing a forty day round of perek shira and started a forty day round of shir hashirim with 39 other girls, every day one of us goes to the kotel to say it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-89408796363966002442008-06-30T08:15:00.000-04:002008-06-30T08:15:00.000-04:00I don't know if it's written anywhere-but it helpe...I don't know if it's written anywhere-but it helped me, boruch Hashem. Buy mezuzahas for someone who needs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-6889767013225441222007-10-13T22:50:00.000-04:002007-10-13T22:50:00.000-04:00READ BAMIDBAR VERSES 12 -89 AND PSALM 119 USING TH...READ BAMIDBAR VERSES 12 -89 AND PSALM 119 USING THE HEBREW LETTERS OF YOUR HEBREW NAME FOR EXAMPLE SARA BAT RACHEL AND PEREK SHIRAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-59744509779928109632007-06-12T19:41:00.000-04:002007-06-12T19:41:00.000-04:00whatever the source is for Amuka doesn't really ma...whatever the source is for Amuka doesn't really matter. Rebi Yonasan ben Uziel was a tanna and that makes it a good place for anyone to go daven. in addition it was once very hard to get to perhaps that was part of the segulaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-73394746564665900942007-06-12T16:14:00.000-04:002007-06-12T16:14:00.000-04:00one Segula for Shidduch I heard from Rav Gamliel R...one Segula for Shidduch I heard from Rav Gamliel Rabinovitch Shlita. to be extra careful with the Mitzvah of Kibud Av V'eimAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-9620509570691524612007-06-12T04:16:00.000-04:002007-06-12T04:16:00.000-04:00'Zivug elyon' could also be the best possible zivu...'Zivug elyon' could also be the best possible zivug as opposed to other intermediary zivugim.. imhoyitzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05866660855678077639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4627447079343465477.post-10022563607107594612007-06-11T21:00:00.000-04:002007-06-11T21:00:00.000-04:00Whoever needs a shidduch or knows someone that doe...Whoever needs a shidduch or knows someone that does and cant make it to Amukah light a candle or give tzedaka or say a kapiel tehilm liluy nishmas Rabi Yonasan ben Uziel.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com